worldlessthanadultsdo.infact，ithinkthatwegrown-upssometimesseelessoftheworldbecausewehaveaepteditjustalittlebittoomuch，henceceasingtoseehoworiginalitcanbe.whenitestothis，yourdadisoneofthebravestpersoni’veevermet.hechallengesmany，butalsoallowshisbelievestobechanged，andfightforwhat’sprovedmostrightintheend.itisavirtuethatyouwilllearntovalueasyougetolder.forthis，iforeverlovehimasmyhusband，asyourfather，andasmybestfriend. yourgrandmotheroncewrotesomethingonthebackofabookformeaswell.shesaidthatamothershouldhaveexpectationsforthechildren，otherwiseshewillnotbeagoodparent.shecouldbestrictsometimes.iwishthatyouhadachancetomeether，butasitis，imissherstrictnessverymuch.youaretoolittleandtoopurelygeousformetoputdownanyexpectationnow.ifeelthatitisasintohopethatishouldmouldyouintosomethingparticular，especiallywhenilookatyourcuriouseyes.soithink，i’drathersharewithyouafewthingstoexpectandlookforinthefuture，nowthatyouaresevenandhavealreadysteppedintothefirstworldofyours—aschool.andasisaid，youdefinitelyhavethelookofanexplorer. asyougrowup，myson，thingscangetalittle…confusing.iwishthesewon’thappentoyouoften，butsometimesyouwilllosethingsthatmakeyoufeelsafe，andpeoplewillleaveyouortreatyoubadlyfornoapparentreasonsatall.iwantyoutoremember，harry，thatthisisnotyourfault.momspentmostofmyteenyearsinaschool(thatyouwillprobablyjoininoneday)，andi’veseen，eveninasupposedlyhomelyenvironment，eventsthatwereunpleasantandhappenedfornogoodcause.bothyourdadandihavebeenresponsibleforsomehurts…butthatisthething，myson.sometimesitisotherpeople’sdoing，sometimesyouhaveapartinitaswell(itrustyoutoknowwhattodowhenthatisthecase)